{"id":10220,"date":"2024-04-02T13:41:15","date_gmt":"2024-04-02T11:41:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/3bconnectedcom.eu2.copilhost.cloud\/?p=10220"},"modified":"2024-04-02T13:41:22","modified_gmt":"2024-04-02T11:41:22","slug":"the-power-of-emotions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/3bconnected.com\/en\/the-power-of-emotions\/","title":{"rendered":"The power of emotions"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1 dir=\"ltr\" style=\"text-align: center;\">The power of emotions&nbsp;<\/h1>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\">Understanding and managing our <strong><\/strong>emotions.<\/h3>\n<p>Nos \u00e9motions sont l&#8217;essence m\u00eame de notre \u00eatre.<\/p>\n<p>Elles peuvent \u00eatre des forces puissantes qui fa\u00e7onnent notre fa\u00e7on de penser, d&#8217;agir et d&#8217;interagir avec les autres.<\/p>\n<p>For centuries, philosophers have sought to understand these emotions and how to manage them.<\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p>The great philosopher Spinoza said:<\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;l&#8217;\u00e9motion est la source principale de tout devenir conscient&#8221; <\/em><\/p>\n<p>Nous n&#8217;en sommes peut-\u00eatre pas toujours conscients, mais nos \u00e9motions nous informent en permanence sur ce qui se passe dans notre vie et sur la mani\u00e8re dont nous devons y r\u00e9pondre. C&#8217;est pourquoi il est si important de comprendre nos \u00e9motions.<\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"text-align: justify;\">Nos \u00e9motions ont un pouvoir immense sur nous capables de nous montrer le chemin et les d\u00e9cisions \u00e0 prendre. Elles nous permettent de comprendre ce qui nous motive, comment r\u00e9agissons aux personnes ou aux situations, et m\u00eame comment nous g\u00e9rons le stress ou les situations difficiles. Lorsque nous prenons conscience de nos sentiments et que nous leur permettons d&#8217;\u00eatre sans jugement, nous pouvons mieux nous conna\u00eetre et d\u00e9velopper des liens plus forts avec ceux qui nous entourent.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><em><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>The motivating factor behind our emotions.<\/strong><\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"text-align: justify;\">Pour comprendre pourquoi nous \u00e9prouvons certaines \u00e9motions, il est utile de reconna\u00eetre qu&#8217;elles sont souvent activ\u00e9es par un d\u00e9sir motiv\u00e9 par ces deux grandes racines :<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>FEAR or LOVE<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"10228\" width=\"267\" data-init-width=\"500\" height=\"267\" data-init-height=\"500\" title=\"Fear-Love\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/3bconnected.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Peur-Amour.png\" data-width=\"267\" data-height=\"267\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 500 \/ 500;\" mt-d=\"-71\" ml-d=\"0\" center-v-d=\"true\"><\/span><\/p>\n<h2 dir=\"ltr\">Fear<\/h2>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">C&#8217;est un <strong>innate feeling <\/strong>within us to maintain <strong>the survival of the living world, fear<\/strong> leads us to<strong> flee or fight<\/strong> faced with a <strong>real threat. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Of course there is only one fear, but in today's world we live in, <strong>fear is divided into <\/strong><strong>2 categories.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><em><strong>I think it's very important for everyone to be aware of this and learn to tell the difference.&nbsp;<\/strong>The opposite can lead to serious problems. <\/em><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li dir=\"ltr\">\n<h3 style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Innate (natural) fear<\/strong><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"text-align: justify;\">C&#8217;est <strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">an innate emotion<\/span><\/strong> pour notre survie. Qui survient imm\u00e9diatement lorsque quelque chose de r\u00e9el nous semble mena\u00e7ant ou difficile, qu&#8217;il s&#8217;agit d&#8217;un sentiment d&#8217;ins\u00e9curit\u00e9 dans une relation, d&#8217;un entretien d&#8217;embauche ou face \u00e0 un tigre. <strong>The danger is visible<\/strong> and in general, <strong>elle ne dure que le temps de l&#8217;\u00e9v\u00e9nement.<\/strong> &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"10295\" width=\"449\" data-init-width=\"6912\" height=\"225\" data-init-height=\"3456\" title=\"FEAR5\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/3bconnected.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/PEUR5.png\" data-width=\"449\" data-height=\"225\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 6912 \/ 3456;\" ml-d=\"-95\" mt-d=\"0\" center-h-d=\"false\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u25b8 <em>For example:<\/em><\/p>\n<p>If a tiger comes after me, as soon as I find a hiding place and am saved, it disappears.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Acquired fear&nbsp;<\/strong><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"text-align: justify;\">C&#8217;est <strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">an emotion created<\/span><\/strong> through <strong>unfounded (illusory) suppositions\/suggestions of the mind:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li dir=\"ltr\" style=\"text-align: justify;\">what if I can't...?<\/li>\n<li dir=\"ltr\" style=\"text-align: justify;\">et s&#8217; il se moque de moi?<\/li>\n<li dir=\"ltr\" style=\"text-align: justify;\">and if he\/she hurts me?<\/li>\n<li dir=\"ltr\" style=\"text-align: justify;\">...<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"10296\" width=\"469\" data-init-width=\"6912\" height=\"235\" data-init-height=\"3456\" title=\"FEAR8\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/3bconnected.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/PEUR8.png\" data-width=\"469\" data-height=\"235\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 6912 \/ 3456;\" ml-d=\"-107\" mt-d=\"0\" center-h-d=\"false\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Here, as you have just seen, according to <strong>d\u2019un doute ou d&#8217;un manque d\u2019information,<\/strong> vous allez vous poser une question qui est une pure fabrication du mental. En fonction de vos croyances, programmations mentales et personnalit\u00e9, l&#8217;intensit\u00e9 et l\u2019\u00e9motion de la peur s&#8217;est install\u00e9e .&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u25b8 <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><em>For example:<\/em> <\/span><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"text-align: justify;\">Take the case of someone who underestimates or lacks self-confidence. They can't get in touch with their partner.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"text-align: justify;\">Directly, she will develop negative thoughts that will make her feel threatened (that she is cheating on him\/her, leaving him\/her, getting angry, lying to him\/her, that a disaster has happened to him\/her...). This triggers the entire fear process (programme) in the body from A to Z, which is completely harmful to the health of our immune, psychological, emotional and energetic systems. &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"text-align: justify;\">That's why it's important to be aware of this small detail that can lead to a person's downfall, <span style=\"color: rgb(228, 180, 65) !important;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/3bconnected.com\/en\/free-session\/\" style=\"outline: none;\"><span style=\"--tcb-applied-color: rgb(228, 180, 65) !important;\">to take charge of your life and not let your lack of self-esteem, love, confidence or other personal wounds take over the development of your health and well-being.&nbsp;<\/span><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"10302\" width=\"650\" data-init-width=\"4919\" height=\"365\" data-init-height=\"2764\" title=\"9\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/3bconnected.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/9-e1711631557725.png\" data-width=\"650\" data-height=\"365\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 4919 \/ 2764;\"><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li dir=\"ltr\">\n<h3 style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>The message of fear:&nbsp;<\/strong><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Fear warns us of two things:<\/span><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"text-align: justify;\">1- <strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">You have a lack of information:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Our ignorance of the truth<\/strong>is what makes us <strong>un sentiment d&#8217;ins\u00e9curit\u00e9<\/strong> pour nous pousser \u00e0 aller chercher la v\u00e9rit\u00e9 cach\u00e9e derri\u00e8re ce mal \u00eatre. C&#8217;est \u00e0 dire, <strong>pass judgement on something<\/strong> which is not real but rather <strong>a pure illusion of the mind. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u25b8 If we take the example given above, the message could be :<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li dir=\"ltr\" style=\"text-align: justify;\">Do not invent negative thoughts if the information is not real\/confirmed.&nbsp;<\/li>\n<li dir=\"ltr\" style=\"text-align: justify;\">Do not pass negative judgement without knowing the truth from the person concerned.<\/li>\n<li dir=\"ltr\" style=\"text-align: justify;\">Check the information.<\/li>\n<li dir=\"ltr\" style=\"text-align: justify;\">...<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"text-align: justify;\">2- <strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">You have the wrong information: <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"text-align: justify;\">We have <strong>thousands and thousands of beliefs in our brains<\/strong><strong>,<\/strong> about ourselves, others and life. Here, the message is to inform us that we carry within us <strong>information that is incorrect<\/strong> about us in the programmes recorded in <strong>our subconscious <\/strong>and the time has come to change it to avoid <strong>this emotional discomfort. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u25b8&nbsp;<em><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">For example:<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"text-align: justify;\">Supposons que pendant toute son enfance, des parents ont dit \u00e0 leur enfant pour le prot\u00e9ger bien s\u00fbr : \u201cSurtout ne parle pas aux inconnus\u201d. Cette croyance a servi \u00e0 le mettre en alerte en l\u2019absence des ses parents durant toute son enfance. Cela a bien fonctionn\u00e9, sauf qu&#8217;en devenant adulte, cette personne va se sentir mal \u00e0 l&#8217;aise, stress\u00e9e, les mains moites \u00e0 chaque fois qu\u2019elle va se confronter \u00e0 de nouvelles personnes, ou qu&#8217;un inconnu vient vers elle etc. Chose qui peut \u00eatre tr\u00e8s g\u00eanante en entretien ou simplement dans son quotidien car cela d\u00e9clenche le processus d&#8217;ins\u00e9curit\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><em>\u2348<\/em>&nbsp;<em><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">The message:<\/span><\/em><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"text-align: justify;\">The person must change their beliefs about strangers, no longer being a defenceless child but rather a responsible adult who knows how to defend themselves if necessary. They must remember that their safety depends solely on themselves, on their self-confidence, and if they don't know how to do this, they should not hesitate to <span style=\"color: rgb(106, 107, 108) !important;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/3bconnected.com\/en\/free-session\/\" style=\"outline: none;\"><span style=\"--tcb-applied-color: rgb(106, 107, 108) !important;\"> ask for help<\/span><\/a><span style=\"--tcb-applied-color: rgb(106, 107, 108) !important;\">.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Si le message n\u2019est pas compris et le changement n\u2019est pas appliqu\u00e9, la charge \u00e9motive va s&#8217;accentuer de plus en plus et peut aller jusqu&#8217;\u00e0 des crises de paniques, d\u2019angoisses,&#8230; qui peuvent induire \u00e0 un blocage \u00e9nerg\u00e9tique et physique. Cela poussera la personne \u00e0 se contenter de peu, ne pas affronter les d\u00e9fis de la vie, \u00e0 ne pas \u00e9voluer, s&#8217;abandonner \u00e0 la d\u00e9faite et finir par croire que la vie est dure, injuste\u2026 &nbsp;Sans parler des d\u00e9g\u00e2ts caus\u00e9s sur la sant\u00e9 (baisse du moral, fatigue, tristesse, sentiment d\u2019impuissance, procrastination, manque de confiance, d\u2019estime, affaiblissement du syst\u00e8me immunitaire..).<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u2764\ufe0e If you wish, I can arrange a meeting with you to take stock of your concerns, needs and objectives.<em>(c&#8217;est sans engagement!).<\/em><\/p>\n<h2>Les \u00e9motions<\/h2>\n<p><strong>Desire is an emotion <\/strong>qui survient lorsque quelque chose semble d\u00e9sirable, il peut s&#8217;agir de quelque chose de mat\u00e9riel comme une nouvelle voiture ou de quelque chose d&#8217;intangible comme l&#8217;amour ou la compagnie. <\/p>\n<p style=\"\">By acknowledging <strong>the motivating factor behind your emotions<\/strong> &#8211; <strong><span style=\"--tcb-applied-color: rgb(228, 180, 65) !important; color: rgb(228, 180, 65) !important;\">fear or desire<\/span><\/strong> &#8211; vous pouvez commencer \u00e0 d\u00e9couvrir vos v\u00e9ritables motivations dans la vie.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Managing your emotions.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Once you have <strong>become aware of your emotions<\/strong> and their root cause, you can begin to <strong>manage them more effectively. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The lessons of <em>Louise Hay <\/em>sur l&#8217;amour de soi soulignent l&#8217;importance de s&#8217;aimer inconditionnellement afin d&#8217;avoir la force n\u00e9cessaire pour g\u00e9rer ses propres \u00e9motions.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>Spinoza<\/em> also believed that <strong>understanding one's own emotions<\/strong> was a way of <strong>find inner peace.<\/strong> Il affirme qu&#8217;en comprenant pourquoi on ressent certaines choses, on peut se lib\u00e9rer des sch\u00e9mas de pens\u00e9e n\u00e9gatifs et en cr\u00e9er de plus positifs. Conclusion : La compr\u00e9hension de nos \u00e9motions est essentielle \u00e0 la croissance et au d\u00e9veloppement personnels, car elles nous permettent de mieux nous conna\u00eetre \u00e0 un niveau plus profond que jamais. Reconna\u00eetre ce qui nous motive &#8211; qu&#8217;il s&#8217;agisse de la peur ou du d\u00e9sir &#8211; et apprendre \u00e0 g\u00e9rer nos \u00e9motions sont des \u00e9tapes cl\u00e9s pour mieux ma\u00eetriser notre vie et trouver la paix int\u00e9rieure. Avec la pratique vient le progr\u00e8s &#8211; alors essayez d&#8217;explorer vos sentiments chaque jour !<\/p>\n<\/p>\n<h2>L&#8217;amour:<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"10233\" width=\"650\" data-init-width=\"4930\" height=\"366\" data-init-height=\"2776\" title=\"2\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/3bconnected.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/2-e1711628676283.png\" data-width=\"650\" data-height=\"366\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 4930 \/ 2776;\" mt-d=\"-27\" ml-d=\"0\" center-v-d=\"true\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">One way to better understand our emotions is to <strong>practise mindfulness,<\/strong> such as meditation or<strong> la tenue d&#8217;un journal. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Lorsque nous prenons le temps d&#8217;\u00eatre attentifs, nous pouvons observer ce qui se passe en nous sans jugement ni attachement. Cela nous aide \u00e0 mieux comprendre pourquoi certaines \u00e9motions se manifestent, ce qui peut ensuite conduire \u00e0 une plus grande conscience de soi et, en fin de compte, nous aider \u00e0 prendre des d\u00e9cisions plus r\u00e9fl\u00e9chies \u00e0 l&#8217;avenir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Une plus grande prise de conscience s&#8217;accompagne d&#8217;une plus grande <strong>ability to love<\/strong> &#8211; \u00e0 la fois pour nous-m\u00eames et pour ceux qui nous entourent &#8211; ce qui permet une compr\u00e9hension encore plus profonde de qui <strong>we really are deep down.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Find my gratitude journal<\/span><\/strong> pour vous aider \u00e0 prendre conscience de l&#8217;importance de la gratitude dans notre vie quotidienne.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Ce journal est un cahier de bord qui vous suivra toute une ann\u00e9e et vous permettra de d\u00e9velopper l&#8217;amour de soi et vivre dans la joie.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\n<h3 style=\"text-align: justify;\">Conclusion:&nbsp;<\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Our emotions have immense power over our lives,<\/strong> elles peuvent fa\u00e7onner notre fa\u00e7on de penser, d&#8217;agir et d&#8217;interagir avec les personnes qui nous entourent.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">En prenant le temps de r\u00e9fl\u00e9chir chaque jour sur vous-m\u00eame et en vous inspirant de grands penseurs comme Louise Hay et Baruch Spinoza, vous pouvez mieux comprendre votre propre vie \u00e9motionnelle et prendre des d\u00e9cisions plus avis\u00e9es lorsque vous \u00eates confront\u00e9es \u00e0 des circonstances difficiles. <\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>With this knowledge comes power, the power to understand yourself better so you can live a happier life, filled with useful moments of joy! <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u200b<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Le pouvoir des \u00e9motions&nbsp; Comprendre et g\u00e9rer nos \u00e9motions. Nos \u00e9motions sont l&#8217;essence m\u00eame de notre \u00eatre. Elles peuvent \u00eatre des forces puissantes qui fa\u00e7onnent notre fa\u00e7on de penser, d&#8217;agir et d&#8217;interagir avec les autres. Pendant des si\u00e8cles, les philosophes ont cherch\u00e9 \u00e0 comprendre ces \u00e9motions et \u00e0 savoir comment les g\u00e9rer. Le grand philosophe [&hellip;]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":145,"featured_media":10223,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[133],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10220","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-emotions","post-wrapper","thrv_wrapper"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/3bconnected.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10220","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/3bconnected.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/3bconnected.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/3bconnected.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/145"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/3bconnected.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10220"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/3bconnected.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10220\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10310,"href":"https:\/\/3bconnected.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10220\/revisions\/10310"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/3bconnected.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/10223"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/3bconnected.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10220"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/3bconnected.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10220"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/3bconnected.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10220"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}